Member Spotlight

Kela Jones

Meet our featured member, Kela!

 

What is your favorite placement?

I need to pick two. Sorry! My favorite placements thus far would have to be the one I have served in the longest, League Photographer, as well as my other current placement, Innovative Teaching Grants Chair. I have enjoyed capturing the various events and members over the past four years. There is nothing like the feeling you receive when you deliver grants to teachers in the presence of their students.

 

Why did you get involved in the JLM?

I got involved with JLM due to a request by my former boss at Peer Power, Bill Sehnert. While I joined because I was voluntold by Bill, I have stayed and taken on various leadership roles because of the relationships and development opportunities I have been afforded through my service in the League.

 

What have you learned from being a member of the JLM?

As a member of JLM, I have learned to put in to the League as much as I want to get out and to be the change that I want to see.

 

What advice do you have for other members about choosing a meaningful placement?

Being in a meaningful placement is one of those things that can make or break your JLM experience. First, choose a placement that works well with your personal and professional schedule. If you don’t know the ins and outs or time commitment, find someone currently or previously in the placement and ask them about the time commitment. Second, choose a placement that does not reflect what you do at work daily. This allows for you to step out of your comfort zone and stretch yourself in an area you may have been wanting to see growth or an area you least expected to ever see yourself. Lastly, choose a placement you can be or are passionate about. Being passionate about your placement will always make it that much easier to lend your time, talent and you will see that your level of commitment is unparalleled.

 

What’s been your favorite GMM location and/or speaker?

My favorite GMM speaker is by far Bill Courtney. Mr. Courtney’s speech was one that was uncomfortable for some and past due for others. Through his words, I recognized that you can’t truly effect change if you are not truly serving and are living within a vacuum. In serving, you have to do more than just show up and give your time, talent and treasure. You actually have to engage, connect, learn, empathize, be consistent and be cognizant of all of those you are serving and serving alongside. If you are giving your time, talent and treasure to organizations and the people they serve, get to know those people, at the very least learn their names and the names of staff. If you can’t do this small thing, you are simply existing and not truly serving. Being truly involved in an organization, in a volunteer capacity, means taking the time to get the know the people in the organization and served by the organization who do not live or did not grow up in the same zip code, are not in the same income bracket and who do not look like you. Ultimately, it means serving at the most human and humane level.

 

What is your occupation?

I am the director of development for CodeCrew. CodeCrew trains and empowers underrepresented communities to be tech innovators and leaders through practical, hands-on computer science training.

 

Who has inspired you in your career/field?

My inspiration in my career comes from the young people I have had the honor to serve, raise funds for and work alongside. Their stories make going to work daily easy. They are my why.

 

What is your favorite Memphis restaurant?

I love food so it is hard to pick one! Sorry, again! Cozy Corner, Pho 64, Osaka, and Gus’s in no particular order.

 

Who’s your favorite sports team?

Memphis Tigers

 

What is your favorite quote?

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

What is the last book you read and would recommend?

Becoming by Michelle Obama.

 

Is there anything else you would like to share about your experience as a member of Junior League?

I would like to thank Jennifer Taylor for her unwavering support and belief in me. Her act of kindness will forever be ingrained in my heart.

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Community Program Spotlight on MAM

Recently a couple Junior League of Memphis members reflected on their placement with Memphis Athletic Ministries: Ladies Lounge (MAM), and shared how they spent their day impacting young girls. The article below was written by MAM Historian of the Day, Tameka H. Nelson and MAM Program Chair, Dee Lovette.

MAM: Activity Impact

With all the rain we’ve experienced for several days, I must say hanging out with the girls from MAM was quite refreshing. These young ladies are very energetic and blazing with unique personality! As members of the league, it was our pleasure sharing words of encouragement and expressing gestures of love and most of all “kindness” which happened to be the word shared with the girls for the day.

 

 

We began the morning with introductions and getting to know the girls. We explained the first project they would be working for the day: creating “kindness” jars. After the girls and the JLM mentors shared their definition of kindness, the crafting and creativity begin. The girls, with the assistance of the JLM mentors, created their masterpieces! The girls were encouraged let their minds soar with creativity. They used materials such as mason jars, paint, colored pencils and markers to bring their masterpieces to life.

 

The second project for the morning involved each girl partnering up with a JLM mentor to make colored bracelet cords. Now this project was a bit of a challenge for our mentors but not the MAM girls. These young ladies jumped in full speed. The girls took charge and completed the bracelets without a second thought. Needless to say, it was no challenge for the girls!  After completing the bracelets, it was time to call it a day. We ate more healthy treat, took pictures of our day to remember and said our goodbyes. We hope the girls enjoyed spending their morning with the JLM as much as we enjoyed spending ours with them!

 

To learn more about this Community Program and others, visit https://www.jlmemphis.org/community-partnerships-and-programs.

Member Spotlight

Jennifer Culotta

 

 

Meet our featured member, Jennifer!

What is your proudest moment in your League experience?

Every year we have an opportunity to leave a lasting impact on the JLM and the communities we serve. I am most proud of the work the Membership Taskforce did in 2016-17 and 2017-18 that led to the introduction of our new membership model. When Jenny Taylor was President-Elect she was already thinking of ways to improve our member experience and asked if I was interested in helping. It really is amazing how much you can get done when you have a focused team working on a simple goal to help every member have her best year ever!

Why did you get involved in the JLM?

I joined the JLM when I was new to Memphis. I grew up in a small town and really missed the sense of community I felt there. I also wanted the sense of fellowship that comes from serving with others toward a common mission.

What do you love about being  a member of the JLM?

What’s not to love! I enjoy working with women who are passionate about making Memphis a better place. I love getting to meet amazing women who inspire me to grow personally and professionally. I am thankful for the great friends I have made and the real conversations that happen amongst our members. I stay in the League because our organization offers so many opportunities to challenge myself while helping accomplish a mission that speaks to my heart.

What advice do you have for other members about choosing a meaningful placement?

When it comes to placement, I believe there are multiple factors that lead to meaningful experience. First and foremost is your attitude. If you go into a placement ready to make an impact and develop your potential, you will–even if there are growing pains from time to time. I encourage members to talk to other members about the placements they are in, to attend placement shifts for placements they are considering, and to ask more senior members in the League where they think you would excel. Some of my favorite placements have been those I was encouraged to pursue but would have never considered on my own.

What’s been your favorite GMM location and/or speaker?

I love our May GMMs when our provisional classes complete their first year of services and out long-time actives become sustainers. I always get choked up during this meeting, thinking about the lifelong journey of our members and the impact our members make on each other and Memphis.

What is your occupation?

Vice President of Sales and Market, Lokion

What is your favorite quote?

“I am an optimist. It does not seem too much use being anything else.” – Winston Churchill

What is the last book you read and would recommend?

A few months ago I listened to The Hate U Give on Audible. I suggest listening to the book because I think the characters’ voices ring truer in audio and the story is that much more real. It’s a really powerful book. A few other good reads from 2018 are The Bear and the Nightgale, Little Fires Everywhere and Sourdough.

Member Spotlight

Ruby Powell – Dennis

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Meet our featured member, Ruby!

 

Congratulations on being honored as one of MBJ’s Top 40 under Forty!  How has your membership in the Junior League of Memphis contributed to your career success?

Thank you so much for your kind words.  The JLM contributed to my career success by giving members the space to launch affinity groups. As a result, I launched our Women of Color Affinity group. Through this incredible group of 100 women, we have formed a strong network of leaders that regularly convene to discuss everything from leadership challenges to life success.

Also, through the JLM, I have increased my professional connections across the city.

 

What is your favorite placement?

Nominations Committee!  My chairwoman was wonderful and the committee consisted of so many women with so much knowledge and leadership. I am really proud of the work we did to give the organization the best leadership slate possible.

 

Why did you get involved in the JLM?

To make friends and to volunteer. I relocated to Memphis from Denver, Colorado. Being in the Junior League was something I knew I wanted to do eventually, but prior to moving here, my work schedule was just too busy to fit it in. Memphis was the perfect place for me to join.

 

What have you learned from being a member of the JLM?

That you can elevate your leadership “brand” in the organization and in our city by stepping up when there is a need, having high expectations for the work you do on behalf of the organization internally and in the community, and that how well you treat other women in the JLM can open doors for you outside the JLM.

 

What advice do you have for other members about choosing a meaningful placement?

Ask around about the experiences other women have had serving in that placement so you know what it takes to be successful. Just because something is challenging doesn’t mean you shouldn’t consider it. You might be exactly the right person to help make things go from good to great! If it is not right for you, that is okay. Talk to the Placement Chair because there are so many ways a woman can serve.

 

What’s been your favorite GMM location and/or speaker?

I really like the Levitt Shell. Something about being outdoors, the women, the food trucks, and just being able to sit on your favorite blanket or lawn chair and listen to a great speaker.

 

What is your occupation?

Director of Outreach

 

Who has inspired you in your career/field?

My mother. She loves to reach out, connect people with each other, and volunteer in the community. I inherited her passion for service.

 

What is your favorite Memphis restaurant?

Maciel’s Tacos Downtown. They know me. They are my peeps.

 

Who’s your favorite sports team?

Florida Gators. Always.

 

What is your favorite quote?

I am deliberate and afraid of nothing.~ Audre Lorde

 

What is the last book you read and would recommend?

If Audio-Books count….Jenifer Lewis’s “The Mother of Black Hollywood: A Memoir”.   If not, Neil DeGrasse Tyson “Astrophysics for People in a Hurry”.

More than a Placement: A Closer Look at Camp Good Grief

Camp Good Grief

CGG - logoTo help children who have lost loved ones, Camp Good Grief (CGG) started in 1999 as the first bereavement camp in the Mid-South area.  The goal of the free annual camp is to give area children ages six to 12 an enjoyable, accepting and supportive environment, in which they can freely express their feelings about the loss of a loved one. The camp is made possible through a grant from Baptist Memorial Health Care Foundation, partnerships with local businesses, private donations and fundraisers. The two major fundraisers consist of “The Art of Caring” auction and the CGG 5K and 1-mile walk. The 19th annual Art of Caring was held on September 13, at the Grand Carousel Pavilion & Ballroom at the Children’s Museum of Memphis.  The 5K, which was held on September 30 at Memorial Park cemetery, is a family-fun event that also offers food and things such as moon bounces, face painting, and games for the kids.

A few Junior League Members took time to reflect on their placement with Camp Good Grief and how being involved with the camp has been a life-changing experience.

“As I reflect on my Provisional year, I think about the various placements I was exposed to. Although, there are many great placements in the JLM,  it was after viewing the documentary on Camp Good Grief that I decided I really wanted to be a part of the Camp Good Grief placement.  I felt like this would be a good fit for me, as I love working with children and to be able to help kids that have experienced a loss made it more appealing to me. We began preparing for camp in early spring, making the arts and crafts for the children’s various camp projects.  The closer it got to June the more excited I was!  Camp was everything I imagined it would be and more! My only wish is that Camp Good Grief would one day receive funding that would increase the camp from three days to a full week. After camp, I couldn’t stop thinking about my “buddy” and the entire camp experience.  I went on and on about it with a few of my coworkers who happened to be Provisionals last year and as a result, they selected Camp Good Grief as one of their placement choices and actually got it!! Camp Good Grief 5kDuring the summer, I received a call from someone within the Junior League who asked me if I would be I interested in being the chair of Camp Good Grief. Me? Needless to say, I was shocked and surprised and after much thought accepted the position. For me, this was a great opportunity to utilize the skills and knowledge I obtained through the LEAD program and I get to spend another year in a placement I enjoy so much.  Working with Angela Hamblen- Kelly and Melissa Surles from Baptist Hospital and the ladies in the placement has been such an honor and pleasure.  In getting to know the ladies, I discovered several have experienced the great works offered through the Kemmons Wilson Family Center for Good Grief. I thought this would be a great opportunity for them to share.”Jameta Young

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“My history as a volunteer started while in college as a member of my sorority.  After several years of focusing on career I began looking for a way to get involved in the community again.  During my search, two of my friends spoke highly of the JLM and the opportunities it provides to get involved.  They were right!  From my Provisional year to my now first active year I have had ample opportunities to meet new people and be of service to others.   Camp Good Grief was my placement choice for personal reasons.  On April 29, 2016 my family suffered an unexpected tragedy and in the blink of an eye my nieces were without their mother.  While we as a family stepped in to try to aid them in their hurt, we could never fully understand their grief and quite frankly just did not have all the skills and tools to give them all they needed in their healing process.  I think being a part an awesome ray of hope such as CGG will allow me to develop skills to aid not only my nieces, but so many other youth who are going through similar situations.” –Metrica Spears

Camp Good Grief

“Flashback to April 2013 and I lost my mom. It wasn’t expected, she hadn’t been sick for an extended period of time. It was sudden and it left me in a lost and numb place. My mom’s nurse told me the Kemmons Wilson Family Center for Good Grief and that was the beginning of navigating my new normal. After months of attending counseling sessions, I was invited to attend an adult Grief Camp. I was nervous and scared and didn’t know what to think. How was a camp, an adult camp mind you, going to help me? Skip ahead and in March 2014 I am at Ducks Unlimited on a Friday night with a bunch of strangers to be with my grief. We had dinner that first night and discussed what was to come the next day. All the work began Saturday morning. We talked in smaller groups throughout the day and I started to feel more at home. There were people that were in my same shoes. Throughout Saturday we would have heavy moments and then the next activity would be outside or making our way “down a path.” This was to help us see that grief can be sad and happy and full of heavy and light moments. We had several activities that included creating concrete garden pavers in memory of our loved one, a collage about our loved one, writing a letter to our loved one, and several group activities.

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Courtney’s Collage

 Some of these activities seem elementary, and in the moment they sometimes felt that way, but the healing that came through the small, simple things was amazing. The camp ended Saturday evening when we were able to attach the letter we wrote to a balloon. I remember standing there, about to release my balloon, and feeling sadness but at the same time a weight was being lifted off my shoulders. My grief didn’t disappear with that balloon but, some of my anger and things I was holding on to did. I can never thank the staff of the center enough for what they did for me. For the first time in almost a year, I woke up on Sunday morning a bit lighter and a bit happier. I definitely moved a few steps forward that weekend. The staff and the camp gave me more than I can ever express in words. I know I wouldn’t be where I am today without it. The Camp really helped me move forward. It allowed me dedicated time to work on myself and my grief without the noise from normal life. I still have my grief journal and the collage I made. When I need it I can pull it out of my “grief toolbox” that I keep around. When I learned that Camp Good Grief was a placement I knew it was for me. It spoke to my heart. I wanted to give back to something that gave everything to me. I wanted to help someone walk through a lonely and hard journey if even for a short time. I am so blessed I have that opportunity through the Junior League. Grief is a constant journey and this is just another step in mine.”  –Courtney Ray

 

Member Spotlight

Tabitha Glenn

What is your favorite placement?

I have treasured all of my placements because I’ve learned how to be a better leader from all of the remarkable women that I’ve volunteered alongside. Yet if I had to pick, it would be the Salvation Army Common Ground placement because it’s where I had my first and most memorable “JLM moment.” The Salvation Army is Memphis’ only shelter dedicated to women and where the Junior League of Memphis provided educational programs for the residents. One night while we were hosting one of these programs, I heard my name called from across the room. I turned and was greeted by a familiar face that I was surprised to find living there at the shelter. It was an acquaintance that I met through work. I was heartbroken to even think about what she must be going through. Yet she was so appreciative that we were there helping to make a positive difference in her life. I was so touched by her kind words and was so proud to be involved with an organization that was helping so many deserving women in our community. This moment reinforced my commitment to the JLM and put a face and personal connection on the outcome of the great work that our JLM women do every day.

 

Why did you get involved in the JLM?

I joined JLM for three reasons: 1. To serve the underserved while advancing the Memphis community; 2. To broaden my perspective and to learn new skills and 3. To make new life-long friends.

 

What have you learned from being a member of the JLM?

Being a JLM member has given me the opportunity to challenge myself through a variety of experiences and activities throughout the league. This experience along with the relationships that have been built has also given me the confidence to tackle new opportunities in other areas of my life (like going back to school to get an Executive MBA). Through my placements, I’ve learned how to embrace conflict and I’ve become a better and more purposeful listener.

 

What advice do you have for other members about choosing a meaningful placement?

My suggestion is to give some intentional thought to where you want to grow as a leader and go from there. For example, if you want to improve your strategic thinking and forecasting abilities, then you can nominate yourself for a board or senior management council position. If you want to work on prioritization and organization, then pick Merry Marketplace. Or if you want to have direct contact with some of the benefactors of our community programs, then check out GROW. There are so many wonderful options to choose from so I’d also recommend talking with other members to hear about their experiences as well. You can do a quick search by placement in the JLM membership online directory to get names and contact info of other members. Or folks can contact me too.

 

What’s been your favorite GMM location and/or speaker?

There have been so many yet Coach Bill Courtney is one of my favorites. He’s the football coach that inspired the academy award-winning documentary, Undefeated. He taught me not to be a “turkey person” and that “serving and attempting to inspire others is a responsibility, not a choice.” Wise advice that I try and live by every day.

 

What is your occupation?

I’m honored to serve as the Executive Director at ALSAC/St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital where I assist a team of fundraising professionals who raise money through direct marketing channels (TV, digital, direct mail and phone). It’s a mission that’s close to my heart because families shouldn’t have to worry about paying medical costs while their child fights to live.

 

Who has inspired you in your career/field?

The women I work alongside at ALSAC/St. Jude and the women that I volunteer alongside at the Junior League of Memphis. The authenticity and wisdom demonstrated through these dynamic impact makers leaves me in awe every time I see their mighty works in action. This servant leadership inspires me to be a better human.

 

What is your favorite Memphis restaurant?

Los Pilares

 

Who’s your favorite sports team?

The Dallas Cowboys

 

What is your favorite quote?

“It’s infinitely better to fail with courage than to sit idle with fear, because only one of these gives you the slightest chance to live abundantly. And if you do fail, then the worst-case scenario is that you’ll learn something from it.” – Chip Gaines

 

What is the last book you read and would recommend?

I’m a huge fan of upcycling, farmhouse chic and Fixer Upper so I just finished Chip Gaines’ book – Capital Gaines: Smart Things I’ve Learned Doing Stupid Stuff. It is amazing and so empowering. I finished the whole book in 3 hours!

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Greetings from our President

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Hello!  My name is Erica Stiff-Coopwood, and I am the President of the Junior League of Memphis.  For almost 100 years, the Junior League of Memphis has been an organization that our community has equated with excellency in voluntarism, mentoring, serving, and developing women into leaders.  I am so proud to continue the legacy of strong leaders who have greatly impacted our community. From the founding of the Memphis in May International Festival, Hope House, Children’s Museum of Memphis, Church Health Center, just to name a few, our members have had a direct and substantial impact in making Memphis a better City for us all!  

Over 1,600 members strong, our membership is comprised of women dedicated to building community partnerships.  We do this by working alongside the neighbors we serve to identify and develop effective programming. As a membership organization, we are also deeply committed to helping develop the potential of women who are willing to accept the challenge of being servant-leaders.  This commitment to community responsibility and investment in its members is what attracted me to the Junior League of Memphis.

I extend a hearty thank you to all our members who have chosen to devote their time, talents, and resources to Memphis through their voluntarism with the Junior League of Memphis.  To our future members, I encourage you to reach out to a member of the League, or if you don’t know one, reach out to me at president@jlmemphis.org, and I’ll help direct your pathway to becoming a part of the Junior League of Memphis.

It is with great pleasure that I serve the League, and I thank you in advance for your support as we continue impacting the great City in which we live.

Thank you so much!